Saturday, July 31, 2010

Dear 'Daddy'...

Dear 'Daddy',

On Thursday, October 28th 1985 at 12:10 am, my mother gave birth to a beautiful indian looking little thing weighing 6 lbs 3oz with super jet black hair. You were nowhere to be found. Now its 25 years later, and you're still nowhere to be found.  I'm writing you this letter to just let you know what you have missed out on. I graduated from elementary, junior high, and high school as a straight A student. I've never been in detention, or suspended, nor have I had to repeat a grade. I learned how to ride a bike, rollerblade, and drive. I've never been hit on by any man; I don't have any children, and considering the times that we live in now, I am happy to say that I've never been pregnant, OR had a pregnancy scare, which I think is a huge success for a young woman to be turning 25. I used to look in the mirror and hate the reflection that stared back at me, because it just reminded me of you; it reminded me of all the hurt and the pain and neglect. Now I can look in the mirror and see beauty; and accept the face that I just so happened to get stuck with. I've done all I could as a daughter, and I'm not doing anything else as far as a relationship with you is concerned. I can't live my life holding onto all of this hurt, so I'm letting you go..You WILL get what is coming to you, and I will live on and prosper. I hope wherever you are, you're enjoying your happiness, because when ur pain comes, trust me it will be hell..

Sincerely Yours,


Monday, July 26, 2010

Tab Anyone?

Soo you have a boyfriend/girlfriend, and you guys are dating each other exclusively..ya'll like to go out and eat and see shows and all that good stuff..the age old question:

Who pays the tab?
Do ya go 'dutch'? Or do ya take turns?? Or is it jus whoever offers to pay??

What ya'll say?

Monday, July 19, 2010

What Makes a "Hoe"?

I've never personally been called a hoe, at least not to my face anyway lol, but i've had quite a few convo's  involving some hoe-like activities and propositions.  Just like the word "love", there are many different meanings and outlooks on this very scandalous word..I've even heard it used as a term of endearment..Hoe is like the new bitch, if i may say so. Not like either one of those are positive, but these are just a few things that i've been observing.

Apparently this has been troubling my mind for quite some time now, and I jus need a little clarity.  What does it take for one to be considered a "HOE"? Is it how many partners they have had or how they dress, act, or is it a combination of a bunch of things?

Share ya thoughts!


Thursday, July 15, 2010

"Open Minded"

Hey People!!!

     Welcome to the new blog site!  If you haven't already noticed the name, take a look at it.  I wanted this blog to have a 'no hold back' type of feel.  I think very much outside of the box, and I ask and say what others don't.  So all I ask is that you be prepared to venture to that part of your mind which is hesitant and don't be afraid to let loose; start debates.  And on that note, stay tuned for the first official topic, coming real soon...